Regardless of whether you believe your homosexuality came with you into this life or developed, this last sentence is a very important realization. Many in your position do not figure this out or, if they do, will not admit it. (a quote by a poster on Ex-Gay Watch where I wrote this.
The irony is that, [...]
Ex-Gay Watch #4
Ex-Gay Watch #3
I am not fooling myself that I am more than a person on a journey, but if we as “ex-gays” are honest, (and that goes for your as gays as well) we are all on a journey.
Perhaps a dream I had would illustrate. I was in a deep dark swimming pool which had all [...]
Ex-Gay Watch #2
I must be honest, I don’t have the strength to debate. I realise that one cannot be anything without it somehow seeming like an indictment to somebody else. Our very existence as people who have made a choice against homosexuality as a preferred lifestyle choice, is perceived as an accusation by some. Of course, when [...]
Ex-Gay Watch #1
I have taken to processing some of my stuff on Ex-Gay Watch of all places! It is also on my ExGay Talk podcast if you want to listen instead. Otherwise I will be posting it here too… here it is!
“I think however that if we are all to be honest, we can only ever [...]
you win i lose
I have been looking around at some blogs. This is really the most amazing tool. Everybody gets to say their say. I suppose that it takes a certain type of person to blog. Not everybody could be bothered to put stuff out there in the vain hope that somebody might just see it and say [...]
REJECTION
REJECTION
I don’t believe that after 7 years you could just discard me because I choose a different life. Honestly I would have thought that you’d be happy for me. It’s not like we shared a life together anymore. I suppose you believed that in choosing against your lifestyle I chose against you… have you never [...]
